Considering an abortion? Make an informed choice.
As is the case with any medical procedure, the best decision is an informed one. Each of us is responsible for making these decisions based upon the information at hand, but in the emotional stress that can accompany an unplanned pregnancy, how can you be sure you’re getting all the information you need about every option available to you? How do you find the right services provider - one who will address your specific individual needs and concerns?
StantonCare Advocates are always available to help you understand your reproductive health, pregnancy and abortion options. For more information, contact us today.
Choosing an Abortion Provider: 12 Questions to Ask
How far along am I in my pregnancy? What does my embryo or fetus look like at this point? Do you have any photos? Maybe you have heard conflicting information about fetal development--some people tell you that you have a "child" or "baby," others tell you that you have a "product of conception" or "mass of tissue." Who is right? You're perfectly capable of deciding for yourself. Beware of any clinic worker who withholds information from you about your pregnancy. Ask to see your ultrasound picture verifying how far along you are in your pregnancy. You may also ask questions about the development of your fetus.
- What are the advantages and disadvantages to keeping my baby? What about placing her up for adoption? These questions will help you screen for any bias in the counseling. Some clinic workers will pay lip service to abortion alternatives by simply mentioning them by name, but then not give any helpful information about them. This could indicate that the clinic is sales-oriented and not keeping your best interests in mind. Also beware of those who try to paint pregnancy as scary and horrific. An ethical counselor will give fair treatment to all of your options.
- What are the physical health risks of abortion? The abortion facility worker should mention the common risks, such as pain during the abortion, infections afterwards, plus hemorrhaging, uterine perforation, and possible complications arising from the anesthesia. You should also be informed about the mental health risks associated with abortion. Many clinics will ask you to sign a statement promising not to hold the doctor responsible. Refuse to sign this. No attorney would ever advise you to sign such a statement. Although this form is almost never legally binding, it is best to be on the safe side and not sign it.
- Are there any psychological or emotional risks associated with abortion? Research has shown that many women who have undergone abortion suffer from Post Abortion Stress Syndrome (PASS). While the American Psychiatric Association does not currently recognize PASS, this does not discount that many women suffer emotionally after experiencing an abortion. Beware of clinic workers who try to downplay the emotions that follow an abortion. Be wary of anybody who makes the condescending comment that any post-abortion sadness you may experience is "all in your head" or "just hormones." An abortion is a big decision and the abortion facility workers should acknowledge your feelings and take them seriously. Remember that it is you--not the abortion provider or facility staff--who will undergo the procedure.
- Who will perform my abortion? Is she/he board-certified? Surprisingly, abortions aren't always performed by OB/GYNs or even doctors. Do not settle for anything less than a physician who has completed her/his residency in obstetrics and gynecology. You have the right to insist that your abortion is performed only by a licensed physician. You also have the right to know if this physician’s license has ever been suspended or revoked or if there is a history of medical malpractice or a pending suit.
- If I experience any complications, should I contact my regular physician? Typically, 1 in 100 women experience severe complications from abortion. (Tupin, Suzonne. "Induces Abortion" Danforth's Abstetrics and Gynecology. Philadelphia: Lippencott, Williams & Wilkins, 1999, 575). Beware of abortion facility workers who tell you not to seek medical care with another physician.
- Do you have admitting privileges to a nearby hospital? Make sure that the clinic is prepared to send you to a hospital in case of an emergency. Abortion is surgery, after all. All surgery comes with potential risk. You have the legal right to insist that if you are injured during your abortion you will be immediately transferred by ambulance to the nearest emergency hospital or trauma center.
- How many abortions do you typically perform in one day? Some abortion facilities "process" a lot of women quickly, meaning that they will rush you through your abortion and not give you the individual attention that you deserve as a paying consumer. Refuse to be treated like a commodity.
- Are there any lawsuits pending against your clinic or staff members? Have there ever been? Have you ever lost your license? Obviously, it would not be wise to entrust your body to a clinic or staff that has had or is having legal trouble.
- If I change my mind, will you refund my money? No matter how desperate and scared you feel right now, don't sell yourself short! When considering abortion, don't just make any choice. Make an educated choice. As a paying consumer, you deserve nothing less.
- This question is specifically for those considering a Dilation and Evacuation (D&E) procedure (a surgical abortion performed in the second trimester of pregnancy):
Once you have begun dilation by inserting the laminaria, will I have the option to change my mind? Would you remove the laminaria if I did change my mind? Laminaria (a type of seaweed) are inserted usually for 24-48 hours in order to dilate the cervix and facilitate the abortion. Insertion of the laminaria is reversible. If you wish to have laminaria removed and the abortionist will not do it, go immediately to the nearest emergency room.
- Choosing abortion is a big decision. I want to make sure that I won't regret it. How much time will you give me to decide? Beware of clinic workers who try to rush you into making an "impulse buy." This is a major choice you are making, and a "pro-choice” clinic worker should respect you for making an educated one. You are a consumer considering elective surgery. You deserve time to think it over. A few days of reflection will not restrict your choices.